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Perhaps I’m biased. Of all the other times I could have visited Budapest, my first experience happened to be under a magical, blanket of snow, leaving me completely snowflake-eyed and bewitched. I really wanted to see some Christmas magic this year and Budapest was the perfect backdrop for my frivolous day dreaming.


Not to mention, this was my first foray into Eastern Europe (other than Russia) and I had no idea what to expect. It’s been a long time since I’ve been to a country where I spoke 0% of the language and, for the most part, the Magyars really ventured far from the general mixing pot of linguistics (“Egészségedre” means bless you, but doesn’t it already sound like a sneeze…?)


However, being lost in translation wasn’t an impediment to our enjoyment of Hungary’s capital city. We had three full days to explore, and although I would later have major FOMO as we departed, overall I think we pocketed a good scope of Hungarian culture, food (oh, the food), and architecture. Here’s a run down and some tips on the top experiences to tackle if you’re traveling to Budapest in the winter.



Free walking tours

This is at the top of my list because it has everything in one package – culture, socializing, sight-seeing, exercise, and most importantly, no wallet trauma. The guides are all very friendly and obviously passionate about their city, providing a rich and light-hearted context to the gorgeous buildings, the language, and the people. We happened to do our walking tour on the day that it snowed and I was impressed with how smoothly it progressed, despite. Not to mention, my fan-girlish excitement for the winter wonderland we saw at every turn. There are a few tour companies in Budapest but the one I linked above also has tours by interest – Communism, the Jewish quarter, urban art, and more. Obviously, wear comfortable shoes – our concern was mainly the cold, but the length/strenuousness of the tour was very reasonable. And don’t forget to tip your guide!


Our last stop, the Fisherman's Bastion, closely resembling a snow-covered Hogwarts



Thermal baths

Frankly, I played these up a lot in my head. I had eerily-romantic daydreams of wading around in the steaming outdoor pools while the snow fell around me and I wasn’t cold or uncomfortable by any means and then a Greek god came down from the skies and personally fed me grapes while I soaked in rejuvenating mineral waters… Sadly, this kind of luxurious tourism wasn’t available (yet). We did trek across the bridge to the Buda side to check out the Gellert baths though, and don’t get me wrong, they are beautiful. A main room with a gorgeous blue pool and white columns branches off to smaller rooms with thermal wading pools of various temperatures, all decorated in an Art Nouveau style with tiles of whites, creams, icy blues, and turquoise. Little stone cherubs smile down at you while your hands turn pruny. But alas, the main thing that gets in the way of all this beauty is – the people! And their nasty flip-flops and hair. The outdoor pool was also closed. Overall, I think my expectations were far too high and I didn’t get to fully explore the thermal bath experience, but would definitely want to one day, and probably in the summer. There are many bath houses in Budapest and we didn’t even go to the main one (Széchenyi has multiple outdoor pools and possibly would have been cooler).


Other thermal baths to check out:

Rudas Baths

Kiraly Baths

Széchenyi Baths

Lukacs Baths



Craft cocktail bars

Yes, this is kind of unexpected, especially for those of us that hail from San Francisco and have developed an almost haughty numbness to “craft cocktails” (they are everywhere, and they are most likely average). But somehow, Budapest has tapped into a whole other level of bespoke beverages, absent of any misplaced superiority and abundant in true craftsmanship. I watched a bartender confidently dip my cocktail glass in some kind of salt only to discover that it was actually Pop Rocks that paired dangerously well with the frothy concoction in my glass. Yes, I hear you saying – it’s cool but it’s not that cool. But the truth is, we were able to check out two cocktail bars and at both of them, the professionalism and passion of the bartenders was unparalleled. We learned so much about flavor profiles, what goes with what, the ins and outs of the business… This also extends to the Palinka museum we visited, which had an advanced level of interactive games that taught you all about the liquor’s history, followed by a tasting in their dimly-lit, sophisticated cave.


Cocktail bars to stop at:

Black Swan

Bar Pharma

Barside

Blue Fox

Tuk Tuk Bar

Farm

WarmUp



Ruin pubs

Probably the second most popular thing about Budapest, after its baths, is the abandoned-buildings-turned-drinking-holes that are practically all over the city. And by “drinking holes”, I mean multi-level complexes, outfitted with different themes, kooky decorations, and pulsating bass music, otherwise known as Ruin Pubs. Basically, exactly the kind of debauchery you’d want to meander through at 2 in the morning in a foreign country. Everybody is jovially hammered, the drinks are cheap, and you get all the splendor of a frat party without the nasty, regretful parts (but that’s up to you)!



Best ruin pubs in Budapest:

Fogas Ház és Kert

Szimpla Kert

Anker't

Ellátó Kert

Szatyor



A few other things...

It’s impossible to find bad coffee. Okay, maybe I’m exaggerating, but every place we stopped for a pick-me-up, even the most random little corner store, had amazing coffee. This may have roots in the deep coffee culture Budapest harbored in the early 1900, and why there are quite a few architecturally-impressive “historic coffee houses” scattered throughout the city, where writers and poets used to gather to work. And why now there is a brewing movement of “craft coffee” there. Another thing was that nobody gave us grief for not speaking Hungarian! People are already very friendly but they’re also not unnecessarily haughty about their language (ahem, Parisians) and this makes the city that much more welcoming. We did try our luck with a few Hungarian phrases but, of course, butchered them all mercilessly! And lastly – Hungarian pride. We saw it in the cleanliness of the city, in the lack of Uber and Lyft apps, in their thoughtfully-sourced food and wine, in the upkeep of their architecture… It was refreshing and inspiring to experience and something I’d love to see more of in the near future.


Christmas market and Palinka Museum tasting room


THE PLAN


How to get there

Like I mentioned, there is no Uber or Lyft but the taxi and bus systems are both fairly intuitive. We mainly walked everywhere and grabbed a cab when it was too cold to walk back.


Where to stay

Budapest is broken out into districts like most major cities and each one has its own unique flavor. We stayed in the 9th, on the border of the 5th, and were able to walk to pretty much every district of interest (for a 3-day stay). The ones to focus on for maximum access to everything are:

I – Includes the main architectural marvels like Buda Castle, Fisherman’s Bastion, Mathias Church

V – This is the Inner City and where you’ll find the big shopping streets, Christmas Markets, and St. Stephen’s Basilica

VI – Andrássy Avenue has all of the great theaters and operas

VII – This is the Jewish neighborhood where you’ll find most of the nightlife (and Ruin Pubs)


Where to eat

Deák St Kitchen (V)

Dobrumba (VII)

Getto Gulyas (VII)

Bela Bar (I)

Kispiac Bisztro (V)

Tüköry Étterem (V)

Stand25 Bisztro (V)

Mák Bistro (V)

Zeller Bistro (V)

Intermezzo Roof Terrace (V)

Mazel Tov (VII)

Zoska (V)

Púder (IX)


Where to get coffee

Espresso Embassy (V)

Cafe Gerbeaud (V)

9BAR (VI)

Artist Cafe (VI)

New York Palace Cafe (VII)

Csendes Vintage Bar & Cafe (V)

Bisztronyul (VIII)


Where to get your drink on

Piaf Bar and Disco (VI)

Hello Baby (VI)

Nappali Kávéház (VI)

Piña (VII)

Szomszéd (VII)

Hotsy Totsy (VII)

For Sale Pub (V)

Typo Bar (VIII)



I hope this equips you to plan your own fantastic Budapest trip. As always, reach out with any questions!.




As I continue to plan out extensive trips, and then personally experience them, I find that my biggest obstacle is the fleeting, tricky presence of Time. Why can’t there be 3 of me?? So Me 1 can spend three full days in Joshua Tree Park, Me 2 can hop from art work to art work, and Me 3 can still have enough time to go thrift shopping in the desert and ogle Palm Springs architecture. But alas, the short winter days cut through my precious Joshua Tree plans like a mirage cuts through a desert horizon. Regardless here’s an account of this fascinating place and its mysterious art, followed by all other note-worthy areas that I hope you’ll be able to visit. 




The Park


Well, what can I say… I didn’t expect Joshua Tree to disappoint and it certainly didn’t. I’ve wanted to go to this place ever since I lived as a student in San Diego – there was a mysterious, calm desert somewhere out there, beckoning to me with its rolling flatness and bizarre trees, which somehow reminded me of the baobabs in the Little Prince... I didn’t end up going until way after I moved back to the Bay. 


I booked a thoughtfully-designed AirBnB for us, 5 minutes from the park entrance and sporting a wall of French doors open to the (nearly) barren wilderness. The space was a perfectly curated desert retreat, complete with palo santo and woven blankets. In the proper mood, we drove the 1 mile to the park, watching as the Joshua Trees gradually increased in number, and eventually blended with rolling dry hills and other-worldly rock formations. I had an entire list of destinations to stop at throughout the park but, given my aforementioned discord with Time, we only explored a few (don’t worry there’s a list of all the good stuff for you below). Like I said – it’s hard to be disappointed. If you’ve ever wanted to go to another planet, no need because Joshua Tree is that – a compilation of landscapes and quirky silhouettes you’d never expect to see in the same place together. Alien-like trees reaching up towards the sky with their spidery hands, enormous boulders that seem to be held upright by invisible strings of anti-gravity, fuzzy, seemingly-harmless cacti peppered across the Earth as far as the eye can see… It truly was one of the most unique places I've ever visited.


Our desert retreat

Cholla Cactus Garden

Amateur rock climbing


Points of Interest:

Mark these down in Google Maps


Hidden Valley Nature Trail – Best way to experience the park in a 1-hour hike

Barker Dam – A true oasis

Lost Horse Mine Trail – Abandoned ghost mines

Keys View – For the vista seekers

Skull Rock – For the mountain goats

Cholla Cactus Garden – Fuzzy cactuses! Everywhere!

Ocotillo Patch – More cactuses

Cottonwood Spring – more beautiful hiking



Getting there:

Joshua Tree is about 3-4 hours from Los Angeles, depending on traffic. To cut down on expenses, we flew in to Burbank airport and rented a car, which took about 3 hours with moderate traffic. Keep in mind – the best months to go to Joshua Tree are either November or March. We took advantage of the Thanksgiving break but this also caused for really heavy crowds at the nicer dining spots.



Where to eat:

Downtown JT and the surrounding towns are quite small and there are only a few places that fit my standard of ambiance (💁🏼‍♀️). Some good ones are La Copine, Pappy and Harriett’s, 29 Palms Inn, Joshua Tree Coffee Company, and Pie for the People. This isn’t to say there aren’t any great holes in the wall, but with our time limit, we went straight for the best. If none of these fits the bill, Palm Springs is only an hour away.


The Art

The awe doesn’t stop at the borders of this magnificent park – all throughout Joshua tree and the surrounding towns (if you look hard enough), you can find little pockets of creativity hidden in desert corners, undoubtedly inspired by the landscape of the surrounding nature. Or if not directly inspired by, then existing in beautiful harmony with it. We visited a few of the spots I deemed most unique and most appropriate to our schedule and here are some highlights (but more spots are listed below). 


Monument House – Originally designed by Josh Schweitzer as a holiday retreat for friends in the 90s, this unique house may be out of commission based on what I saw but it’s still a very unique place to see atop a cactus-strewn, rocky hill. 


Art Queen – This is an open air gallery in downtown Joshua Tree, complete with the world famous Crochet Museum, two quirky little shops, a theatre, and rotating art exhibitions. A running theme here (and in Joshua Tree in general) is that the art is often recycled, which I believe forces people to address abundance, consumerism, and convenience in America. And if you can look past the boring label of “trash art”, a very funky world awaits you.



The Station – Really bummed we didn’t get to stop at this gas-station-turned-shop/event space, because it certainly has the right amount of retro, desert aesthetic. Stop in here for unique souvenirs, $1 drip coffees, and curated vintage. 


Noah Purifoy’s Outdoor Museum – This enormous collection of installations and found-object sculptures (100+) is the work of Noah Purifoy, who launched his art career with his reactionary art exhibition during the 1965 Watts Riots in Los Angeles. Coupled with the space-like desert landscape, this sweeping expanse of peculiar structures takes you to another world – another planet, actually. Headless mannequins, upright catamarans, toilet columns (yes, they do look cool), aluminum yurts (to keep out the alien visitors), and tons of old TVs reflecting the setting desert sun. Sounds like a clusterf**k but the sheer magnitude and attention to detail is astounding when you see it in person. Noah’s art was also an homage to the landscape and he was known for labeling it “Environmental Sculpture”, then waiting eagerly to see how the temperament of the desert would shift, even improve, his works. 


Other works:

Joshua Tree is a thriving art community and there are constantly new installations popping up throughout downtown and far, far into the actual desert. High Desert Test Sites (a non-profit collaborative art organization) is a great place to find what’s out there and how to get to it, as well as Atlas Obscura


Desert Christ Park – Creepy Christ sculptures on a desert hill


Pioneertown – An old Hollywood movie set that still functions as an actual town


The Integratron – Used to be an "electrostatic generator for rejuvenation and time travel”, is now a sound bath dome. You can't get more obscure than that.


Elmer Long’s Bottle Tree Ranch – Thousands of colored glass bottles reflect the sun and whistle a tune with the wind


Krblin Jihn Kabin – A heretic’s cabin, part of the fictional world of Eames Demetrios. 


As I’m approaching the end of this post, I’m finally coming to terms with the nagging feeling I’ve had while writing it – I have no choice but to return to the high desert as soon as Time permits. 

Barker Dam


Bonus feature:A mid-century peak at Palm Springs

With literally half a day at my disposal and probably less than 2 hours of actual daylight, I tried to grab as much mid-century modern inspiration from Palm Springs as I possibly could. The culmination of this being – grabbing brunch with my trip crew at King’s Highway. And you know what? It did not disappoint. The food, the music, the architecture – all satisfied my craving enough to hold me over until I return, and when I’ll be prepared to visit every house in this article. We also meandered through downtown before dinner at The Tropicale, a place I highly recommend for a 50's tropicana vibe.








“What is the one thing we absolutely HAVE to do while we’re here?” my best friend asks the Lyft driver. We’ve arrived in San Antonio, Texas on our annual (two years strong) trip and this 75 degree October weekend already looks promising. For the next three days, my bestie continues to interrogate waitresses and Airbnb hosts and our trip shapes up to be the perfect picture of San Antonian culture. And by San Antonian culture, I mean the kind of charm and thoughtfulness I didn’t expect to see in a state I unfairly dumbed down to tumbleweeds and country music in my head. Granted San Antonio is one of the more liberal cities in Texas, I was still blown away by how welcoming, clean, and lovable it was. Need a cheat sheet to this less popular destination only an hour away from the hustle and bustle of Austin? Here are the top three must-do’s followed by some hand-picked spots for a weekend getaway.




1. Take a taxi

On the river of course! Whether you’re trying to be a hardcore tourist or you just want to get to dinner, the GO Rio shuttles that run up and down the San Antonio River are the best way to soak up the fairy tale magic of this city in a short period of time. You can opt to do the actual guided river boat but I found the shuttles to be more casual. Buy a $16 combo ticket, download it to your phone, and find a shuttle stop anywhere along the river to be slowly and romantically whisked away by a friendly (duh) taxi driver. Then try not to feel like royalty when you float through downtown, I dare you.


2. Go to the Pearl

Honestly the Alamo is nothing to write home about when you compare it to the vintage allure of this revamped brewery complex. The history and subsequent renovation of this place is quite unique - functioning throughout the Prohibition Era, the brewery almost closed down at the turn of the century right as Silver Ventures transformed it from a low-income ghost town to a dynamic place focused on community and story-telling. Now the legacy of the Pearl (named after the foamy bubbles of a fresh brew) mingles pleasantly with a culinary school, a plethora of independently-owned shops, and an ever-expanding foodie scene (seriously, go here for the food). The conscientious effort poured into this place is clear to see - in the nicely arranged central plaza where farmer’s markets and movie screenings are often held and the feeling you get of being transported to the last century as the elegant brick buildings unfold in front of you.


3. See the Missions

Okay fine, you can stop at the Alamo… but only if you continue down the river to see the other 4 less known UNESCO sites (and if you love crowds, because there will be one). My tried and tested recommendation is to bike from mission to mission (rent a bike easily with Swell) - you can explore the less busy and quite stunning parts of the river with the added bonus of a few uphill workouts (to work off the charcuterie board you’ll eat at Cured later). The missions themselves are quiet giants, brimming with history and peppered with picturesque Spanish corners. I’d allot at least three hours one way for your trip and then just Lyft straight to the Stella Public House for a much-deserved cold one. 




THE PLAN


Arrive: 

Bird or Lime – Get the app, everyone does it and it’s so user friendly and actually safe (SF can’t handle this kind of convenience unfortunately)

Swell bike – You'll have to slalom between Birds downtown, but it's perfect for exploring the outskirts

GO Rio River Taxi – Shuttles go every hour from 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. and the $12 ticket is valid for 24 hours. They also have monthly options.

Walk! – San Antonio is such a walkable city - there is no excuse (other than zooming around on an electric Bird) because the River Walk is 100% Instagram-friendly and, oh... did I not mention you can walk around with your drink there?? Walk!


Stay:

$$$$ Hotel Emma* – go here even if you're not staying

$$$ Menger Hotel

$$$ St. Anthony Hotel

$$$ Breckenridge House BnB

$$ A Yellow Rose BnB

$$ Hotel Havana*

$-$$ AirBnB


Eat:

Southerleigh Fine Food

Supper*

Cured*

Botika*

Ocho (in Hotel Havana)

The Granary 'Cue & Brew

Pharm Table

Gwendolyn*

Kimura

Bella on the River

Boudro's

Battalion

Maverick Texas Brasserie

El Mirador*

Madhatters Tea House

Bite

Hot Joy


Drink:

Rumble

Still Golden Social House

The Modernist* – cocktails made entirely to order

Jazz, TX* – this is a must, just go

The Luxury – there are swings overlooking the river

Paramour* – rooftop views, drag brunches, and a Moët vending machine

The Brooklynite*

Havana Bar – go through the tiny door on your way to the bathroom at Ocho

Bar 4141

The Bar

Esquire Tavern

Downstairs* – downstairs... from Esquire Tavern, ask a waiter if you can't find it

Lowcountry – live music in an old house

Francis Bogside

Stella Public House

Bar 1919 – don't give up if you can't find it at first


Shop:

Curio (in Hotel Emma)*

Leighelena

The Tiny Finch*

The Twig Book Shop

La Villita Historic Arts Village


More things to do:

Catch a show at a seriously majestic theatre

Paddle board and ogle the historical buildings along the river banks

Ride a horse-drawn carriage like a true tourist (don't worry you'll know it when you see it)


*An asterisk marks the places I found to be truly unique to San Antonio





Always open to any questions or recommendations I may have missed. Happy planning!

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